
Let me be real with you—this blog was originally supposed to highlight three pain points folks are carrying right now. But in true midlife, multitasking, mess-up magic fashion, I typed “3PM” instead of three pain points, and from there I decided to write about the mid-day feels.
Because 3PM is exactly when the feelings hit.
That mid-afternoon moment when you’re:
- Staring into space with a half-drunk iced coffee
- Wondering where the time (and your motivation) went
- Feeling everything all at once… and nothing at all
So, here we are—with a blog born from a typo and backed by truth.
Let’s talk about what’s really weighing people down—and how to bring in just a little bit of light and calm, one oil at a time.
💔 Pain Point #1: The Anxiety of Uncertainty
It’s not just your imagination—life feels unstable.
Between rising costs, unexpected bills, and fear around job security or retirement, a lot of us are living in fight-or-flight mode.
Supportive Oil: Stress Away
🌿 Apply to your wrists or neck when your mind starts spinning.
🌿 Diffuse it around 3PM when your brain needs a breather but you can’t clock out.
Try this mantra:
“I can’t control everything, but I can control my peace.”
🖤 Pain Point #2: Grief in Many Forms
There’s the obvious kind—loss of loved ones. But there’s also grief over routines, safety, plans, and expectations. This kind of loss is quiet, but no less real.
Supportive Oil: Frankincense
🌿 Roll over your heart or the back of your neck for grounding.
🌿 Use during journaling or prayer time to create emotional space.
Try this practice:
Put one hand on your heart, the other on your belly. Inhale Frankincense and let the exhale soften your grief—even if just a little.
🌪️ Pain Point #3: Political Division & Social Disconnection
People are scared to speak, scared to connect, and tired of choosing sides. The tension is real—and so is the loneliness.
Supportive Oil: Harmony
🌿 Diffuse during family dinners or group calls to set a calm emotional tone.
🌿 Apply to your temples before conversations that feel emotionally charged.
Bonus Blend: Combine Harmony + Lavender for that “keep me calm even when the world isn’t” synergy.
💡 Real Talk Challenge:
If 3PM is your breaking point, let’s turn it into your breakthrough.
🧴 Choose one oil.
🧘🏾♀️ Take one minute.
💬 Share one thought or “aha” moment in our group (or keep it just for you).
Peace doesn’t have to be performative. Sometimes it’s just a breath, a drop, and a moment of not spiraling.
Ready to Feel Better?
I’ve created a few custom kits to match these emotions with oils that do real work.
👜 Want the “Soothe the Slump” trio?
📦 Need a grief support starter set for a friend?
🧘🏽♀️ Curious about creating a personalized 3PM ritual?
Drop a 🫶🏽 or message me and let’s talk, schedule some time today!!!
Because healing isn’t linear—but it is possible. One oil. One breath. One connection at a time.

Summer brings longer days, warmer nights, and a whole new rhythm. Whether you’re soaking up the sun, heading out for weekend getaways, or just refreshing your daily routine, now is the time to align your wellness with the season. At CJ’s Oil in the City, we’re here to help you embrace summer with pure, plant-powered products from Young Living that support your body, mood, and energy—naturally.
1. Stay Cool & Hydrated—From the Inside Out
Sunshine is amazing, but hydration is essential. Level up your water with Young Living Vitality Drops, infused with electrolytes and essential oils like lavender-lemon or grapefruit-bergamot. Toss a few NingXia Red packets in your bag for a daily dose of antioxidant-rich energy—perfect for busy, on-the-go summer days.
CJ’s Tip: Keep a glass water bottle infused with lemon or peppermint essential oil near you all day to stay refreshed and naturally energized.
2. Your Summer Skin, Protected and Glowing
Your skin craves balance after sun exposure. Try Lavender Mint Daily Shampoo or the Mirah Luminous Cleansing Oil to gently cleanse without stripping moisture. For sun-kissed skin, Carrot Seed Oil and Lavender Essential Oil can be blended into your post-sun lotion for soothing support.
Don’t forget your Mineral Sunscreen Lotion SPF 50—reef-safe and toxin-free, so you can protect your skin without compromise.
3. Lighten Up with Seasonal Wellness Support
Summer can be fun—but also busy! Support your body with plant-based supplements like Super B (great for mood and energy), Life 9 Probiotic, and Digest & Cleanse to keep your gut happy after those BBQs and picnic snacks.
Need an energy boost without the crash? Try a spritz of Peppermint essential oil on the back of your neck or diffuse Citrus Fresh to uplift any space.
4. Summer Vibes Start with Scents
Set the mood in your home or patio with essential oil blends that match your summer vibe:
•Citrus Fresh + Spearmint = Instant beachy energy
•Lime + Stress Away = Tropical calm in a diffuser
•Lemon + Lavender = Clean, bright, and fresh
CJ’s Tip: Create a DIY cooling spray with distilled water, peppermint, and lavender essential oils—perfect for misting on hot afternoons.
5. Travel-Ready Wellness
Jetting off or road-tripping? Don’t forget to pack your Thieves Hand Sanitizer, Deep Relief Roll-On for tired muscles, and a few roller blends like Tranquil or Peace & Calming to ease travel stress.
Pro tip: CJ’s can help you make custom travel kits or roller bottles—just ask!
Wellness doesn’t take a summer break—and with CJ’s Oil in the City by your side, you can thrive all season long. Whether you’re looking for hydration helpers, glowing skin support, or natural energy boosts, we’ve got you covered with trusted Young Living products and personalized guidance.
Stop by the store or message us online—we’d love to help you build your summer wellness ritual.

🌿 Welcome to May with Young Living! 🌿
Hello, essential oil enthusiasts! As the flowers bloom and the days get warmer, May brings an abundance of exciting offerings from Young Living. Let's dive into all the refreshing opportunities that await you this month:
May is the perfect time to stock up on your favorite oils and earn incredible free products through our Loyalty Rewards program. Enjoy more value with every qualifying order and experience new and beloved essentials at no additional cost.
We're thrilled to announce the latest issue of our OilR e-zine, packed with value for every oil lover. From insightful resources to practical tips, this edition is your guide to maximizing the wellness benefits of Young Living products. [Read the latest issue here!](#)
💪 Tuesday Tips: Women’s Wellness
Every Tuesday, we'll be sharing exclusive tips focusing on Women’s Wellness. Learn how to support your health journey with targeted essential oil uses and lifestyle advice designed just for you. [Visit our Tuesday Tips page here!](#)
It's always more fun with friends! Encourage your loved ones to explore the world of essential oils and join our vibrant community. Let's expand our wellness journey together and support each other along the way.
Thank you for being part of our essential oils family. Stay tuned for more exciting updates and feel free to reach out to us anytime. We look forward to a fulfilling month of wellness and community.
Warmest regards,
[Your Name]
Young Living Brand Partner
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I hope this blog post finds you inspired and ready to embrace a new season of wellness! Young Living Day was a delightful experience filled with incredible reveals that are set to enhance our routines with natural goodness. Let’s dive into some of the latest products that have everyone buzzing.
First off, we must talk about the fresh, energized look for Young Living's beloved Thieves line. This powerhouse collection now comes with a brand new image, but with the same trusted blend you know and love. The new concentrated hand soap is perfect for keeping your hands clean and moisturized, and it smells absolutely divine.
You’ll also love the bath and kitchen scrub and the fruit and vegetable cleaner. They are fantastic additions, making sure that every corner of your home is not only clean but also uplifted by these natural and safe solutions.
Spring is here, and so is the beautiful Wanderlust Diffuser in a stunning spring green. It's portable and perfect for any room or even on-the-go! Pair it with the delightful Jacob and Kait spring oils, like the Lemon Pound Cake, which fills the air with a refreshing zest as you open up your home for a spring refresh.
But that’s not all! The new clean perfume collection, Wyld Notes, is a game-changer in natural scents. The Smokey Ember fragrance is already a personal favorite, offering a subtle yet captivating essence that resonates with every occasion.
Our wellness journey extends beyond just using oils; it’s about creating harmony in every aspect of our lives. Whether at home, in the office, during leisure activities, or even on your drive home, these amazing Young Living products are the perfect companions for a balanced, wholesome lifestyle.
Let’s not forget the community aspect of this journey! I’d love to host a sip and sniff party soon where we can explore these products together. Plus, check out the April OilR e-Zine for more fantastic tips and resources to keep our wellness goals on track.
And I'd love to hear from you. What’s your favorite Dash recipe so far? Let’s swap stories and recipes to fuel our wellness endeavors.
Until next time, Chrystal

In a rapidly moving world, taking care of our mental, emotional, and physical well-being is essential, and integrating essential oils into daily habits can be life-transforming. Lavender, renowned for its calming effects, can be your evening relaxation companion with just a few drops on your pillow or in a diffuser. Start your day with Frankincense to enhance meditation and set a balanced tone for the day.
For those mid-day energy slumps, peppermint essential oil offers an invigorating, natural boost, refreshing both body and mind. Additionally, the Stress Away blend provides a soothing alternative to perfumes, helping maintain tranquility throughout hectic days. For deeper emotional support, the Feelings Kit is designed to aid in releasing burdens and inviting joy, offering a comprehensive self-care experience.
Embrace a healthier lifestyle with the February Wellness Box, a compilation of must-have essential oils delivered straight to your door. Join our Unwind & Thrive Class to learn more about incorporating these natural solutions into your daily routine. This journey towards relaxation and energy is just a box away, providing all the tools you need for a serene, rejuvenated life.
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